Well, another Intro Meeting last night and it’s another success with 11 people in attendance. We had a few second timers from the first meeting who then became members that evening! Welcome.
Like anything new a little time to understand and trust an idea are to be expected. Building community is based on getting to know new people while coming to trust ideas and the people involved with them to be decent and caring.
It’s sad that we, as a society, have been so programmed by the media and government to live in fear of strangers, criminals and now terrorists. Yes they all exist in our world, they always have and I maybe they always will.
But there seems to be a created, manufactured extreme fear that limits people from experiencing their lives free of fear of harm.
I live free of that kind of fear because I don’t read the newspapers and watch the “news” that focuses on the worst “news” and the “horrors” of life, anywhere and everywhere in the world (places so far removed from my life that they only serve to promote fear).
I choose not to participate in consuming the fear, death and mayhem sold by the tv, magazines and newspapers. You can too. I know lots of people who have given up reading and watching the “worst” about the world.
We live in a world that has amazing people and horrible people, incredible wealth and devastating poverty, beautiful weather and tragic storms. When we only hear and read the worst we forget that the amazing people, incredible wealth and beautiful weather FAR outweigh, outnumber and exist daily all around us.
Healthy, vibrant community begins with recognizing what is right, best and possible right here in our neighbourhood, where we can make a difference and uplift a neighbour and make a new friend.
I hope that TimeBanking grows and creates a process, a vehicle for refocusing people on the good things in life and the gifts people have to give.
I believe life is meant to be fun and free of fear. I also believe we get out of life what we expect and believe. Do you really consciously choose your focus of what you expect or are you influenced by the fear sold by the “news” media or family and friends caught up in the latest tragedy? You do get to choose what you focus on, the best in life or the worst.
You can change yourself, you can influence others and you can be a guiding light of possibility in your community. If enough communities rise up to the challenge of reciprocity, give and receive, pay it forward volunteering….hey we might even change the world…. 1 hour at a time, something each one of us can have a hand in!
Privacy and security are important issues in the operation of the TimeBank. As in all things each person is responsible for being intelligent and caring in their interactions with TimeBank members. In my next Blog post I’ll address the issues of privacy and security in TimeBanking that have been raised in the two meetings to date.
Enjoy and expect the best, yes it won’t always be so, but it will be MOST of the time, really!